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Getting a divorce is never easy. No matter how bad the marriage may have been, it's hard to see a marriage end and to say good-bye to someone you once loved. It is for this reason- the love that was once shared- that many people often try to have amicable divorces, and, while such divorces are sometimes possible, there are some situations in which they most certainly are not.



There's Too Much Anger

When you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse cannot be in the same room with one another without yelling, fighting, and calling names, you should take that as a good indicator that the two of you are not going to be able to have an amicable divorce.


After all, if the two of you have that much anger toward one another, can either of you really trust the other to act fairly and rationally? Sadly, more often than not, the answer is no.


Thus, if things are very ugly between the two of you and you can't seem to stop fighting and throwing barbs back and forth, you will definitely want to hire a divorce attorney to handle your divorce for you and to help you to make it through this difficult time.



There are Custody Issues

Divorcing a partner is hard. Divorcing a partner when there are children involved is even harder. And, while many people try to keep things amicable for the kids, this is not always practical or possible, especially when there are custody disputes involved.


If you and your spouse are fighting over visitation after the divorce, who gets full custody, or other important matters related to your children, then you most certainly need to handle your divorce professionally and with a lawyer.


After all, your relationship with your children is too precious a thing to leave up to chance.



There are Lots of Assets Involved

No matter how well you and your spouse may be handling the thought of divorce, the fact remains that, if there are a lot of assets involved, handling the divorce with the advice and help of legal counsel is a wise decision. You work hard for the things you have, and the last thing you want is to lose what you've worked for just because you tried to keep things "amicable."


Anytime money, property, or other major assets are at stake, you are going to need professional legal counsel to protect yourself and your interests.



There's Been Infidelity

Every once in a while, there will be people who, despite infidelity having occurred, are able to handle their divorces amicably. Most of the time, however, this is not the case


Infidelity typically breeds such anger and such hurt feelings that there is no coming back from it.


While your situation may be the exception to the rule, you will want to think long and hard about whether or not you can really handle things amicably after infidelity has occurred. If the answer is no, as it likely will be, you will need your own separate legal counsel.


If, based on this information or just on your own "gut feeling," you feel that an amicable divorce isn't possible, then contact your own personal legal counsel. A great recommendation in terms of a qualified divorce law firm is Melder & Melder PC.


Remember, too, that, even if your divorce is one of the rare amicable ones, this doesn't mean that you can't or shouldn't hire legal counsel. So, even if you think you and your spouse will be one of those rare couples that can settle things amicably, it can still be smart to contact the legal experts at Melder & Melder PC.